Community Guidelines

LifestyleSeeker is a community for adults to connect for genuine dating, companionship, and a shared lifestyle. These Guidelines explain what we expect from everyone, and what is never allowed. They apply alongside our Terms of Service. Breaking these rules can result in content removal, loss of features, suspension, or a permanent ban, and where appropriate we report illegal activity to authorities.

You must be 18 or older

LifestyleSeeker is strictly an 18+platform. Everyone must be at least 18 years old. We enforce a hard age gate and may require identity and age verification. Accounts that misrepresent age are removed immediately. We have zero tolerance for any content or behavior that sexualizes, endangers, or exploits minors, and we report child sexual abuse material to the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children (NCMEC) as required by law.

No solicitation or transactional sex

This is the most important rule on the platform. LifestyleSeeker strictly prohibits prostitution, escorting, sex work, and any offer, request, advertisement, or arrangement of sexual activity in exchange for money, gifts, allowances, or any other consideration. We are a dating and companionship community, not a marketplace for sexual services.

Specifically, you may not:

• offer or solicit sex, sexual acts, or “services” for money, gifts, or any form of compensation;
• advertise rates, “donations,” “PPM/pay-per-meet,” or use coded language or euphemisms to arrange transactional sex;
• act as, recruit for, or advertise an escort, agency, or sex-work operation;
• facilitate, promote, or engage in human trafficking or sexual exploitation.

Genuine generosity within a relationship is part of the lifestyle; paying for sexual acts is not, and any attempt to use the platform that way is grounds for an immediate ban. Consistent with FOSTA-SESTA, we prohibit and act on any content that facilitates prostitution or sex trafficking. If you see solicitation, please report it using the “Solicitation” report category.

Keep public content SFW

Public profiles and photos must be safe for work. No nudity or sexually explicit imagery in public content. Photos are reviewed before they are published, and content that violates this rule is rejected.

Be respectful & safe

• No harassment, threats, hate speech, bullying, or stalking.
• No sharing of others’ private information without consent (no doxxing).
• No sextortion, non-consensual intimate imagery, or pressuring anyone for photos or contact.
• Treat people honestly and take “no” for an answer.

Be authentic

• Use your real identity and recent photos of yourself.
• No impersonation, catfishing, or fake profiles.
• One account per person.

No scams or fraud

• No requests for money transfers, gift cards, crypto “investments,” or off-platform payment schemes.
• No phishing, malware, spam, or deceptive links.
• No advance-fee, inheritance, or romance-scam tactics.

No illegal activity

Do not use LifestyleSeeker for anything unlawful, including the sale of drugs or weapons, or any activity that endangers others.

Reporting & enforcement

Every member can report a profile or message. Reports go to our moderation team, and we act on violations — removing content, restricting or suspending accounts, banning repeat or serious offenders, and reporting illegal conduct to law enforcement. If you are in immediate danger, contact your local emergency services.

Questions or concerns? Reach our Trust & Safety team at safety@lifestyleseeker.com.