Membership

Which plan is right for you?

Three quick questions, one honest suggestion. Your answers stay on this page — nothing is saved or sent anywhere.

1. How do you prefer to be billed?

Month to monthMaximum flexibility — one month at a time.A few months at a timeOne charge every three months, at a better rate.A year up frontOne annual charge at the lowest effective monthly price.

2. What matters most to you?

The essentialsStart conversations, see who's interested and who viewed you, browse incognito, use advanced filters.The essentials, plus standing outEverything above, plus a stronger placement boost in discovery and a Featured highlight on your card.

3. What's your comfortable monthly budget?

Around $99 a monthThe standard monthly price point.Up to about $199 a monthRoom for a premium plan.Whatever has the lowest effective monthly priceHappy to pay more up front to bring the monthly equivalent down.

Answer all three questions to see our suggestion.

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18+ only. LifestyleSeeker is a dating and companionship platform; membership buys platform access, never companionship itself. Solicitation of any kind is strictly prohibited. Memberships are billed in advance and renew until canceled — see our refund policy.